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Sexploitation: Helping Kids Develop Healthy Sexuality in Porn-Driven World
Cindy Pierce
Bibliomotion Books
October 2015
240pp
書籍編號:
05-193
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● 內文簡介

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今日,色情文化已經充斥於路頭巷尾,想要杜絕孩子和青少年接觸的更佳方法,就是建立他們健康的性知識、兩性交往的正確價值觀。

從互聯網、電玩、社交平台、市場營銷到廣告,兒童任何時候都可以輕易接觸到兩性交往的情愛和性欲場面,然而,他們所吸收的這些資訊卻無法滿足他們的好奇心,相反,對於建立正確的兩性關係和對性的期許造成障礙。更重要的是,沒有人直接告訴孩子當中的問題所在。

性教育家暨本書作者Cindy Pierce指出,父母普遍傾向說服他們自己,他們的孩子是不會受到這些文化影響,等他們再大一點就會明白,又或者希望學校和衛生部門會處理這些問題。學校老師可以帶出這些話題與學生進行討論,但不免偏重於知識層面,也無法個別處理,所以從根本上建立正確的價值,父母的工作仍然很重要。父母可以及早地與孩子溝通有關男女情愛的關係,幫助青少年尋方法處理問題,糾正媒體和電玩等不良色情資訊的侵入。

《Sexploitation》一書探討了性泛濫的問題,父母、教育家,以及醫護專業人士對這些視而不見的文化如何影響我們的兒童,並鼓勵父母擔起負責作為主要的性諮詢教育者,為孩子提供更多資訊、有增益的討論,幫助孩子建立和發展正確的男女交往的價值、對性的期望、行為界線和規則,讓孩子進入青春期時已有正面的資訊認知他們的生理發展,以及心理的調適,更有自信和勇氣,日後成為身心健康的成年人。

 

● 作者簡介

Cindy Pierce,是一位性教育家,經常向父母、教育工作者和不同年齡層的學生進行演講,喜歡透過漫畫說故事傳達正確健康的性知識,並糾正充斥社會混淆視聽的情色文化。她著有《Finding the Doorbell: Sexual Satisfaction of the Long Haul》。

 

● 媒體報導

“Pierce cites a wide range of problematic media-driven issues for kids (e.g., hypersexualized female body images, violent masculinity) and urges parents to enter into the dialog to give their children alternative ways to behave and think. While Pierce points out seemingly insurmountable pressures on today’s youth, she devises a workable plan for guiding them toward healthy life choices.”──Library Journal

“Cindy Pierce's new book, Sexploitation, is a comprehensive, wise and sometimes alarming look at the culture of porn that surrounds our kids. Pierce is a straight talker on the subject of sex; she is also a compelling writer and she makes a strong case that parents have to be brave and to talk to their kids before the Internet introduces them to sexuality. Her book will help parents to find that courage.”──Michael Thompson, coauthor of the NYT best-seller Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys

“For every parent who's ever panicked about having 'the talk' with their child, Cindy Pierce has created a frank, honest resource to help -- and more importantly, a reminder that this isn't a 'talk' at all but rather a conversation that evolves as our boys and girls become responsible, sexually active young men and women.”──Jodi Picoult, NYT bestselling author of Nineteen Minutes and My Sister's Keeper