小孩被霸凌怎麼辦？

終結恐懼循環，父母、師長和小孩都需要知道的因應方法。

本書作者凱莉‧高德曼(Carrie Goldman)的女兒凱蒂向來跟其他女孩不一樣。她是星際戰爭的大粉絲，又愛死她的星際戰爭水壺。但是當凱莉一聽到女兒說不想再帶星際戰爭水壺去學校時，十分憂心。她只要用強迫口吻對她說不可以，凱蒂就哭了，委屈說學校男同學告訴她星際大戰的東西只給男生用的。

凱莉聽聞後，自問：「這是怎樣開始的呢？」當其他小孩發現某人做的事跟自己不一樣，便開始用言語和譏笑她？

她最後跟學校提出此事，並在網上寫下這樣的經驗，沒想到竟得到星際大戰粉絲的廣大支持，以及逐漸隨其而來的防止霸凌團體、推特和名人的支持。在她這本著作中，將以同理心分析了霸凌是如何發生？從學校走廊上的揶揄到整個社會媒體，再到不經檢視卻到處充塞的網路攻擊。學院對霸凌的研究是有用的，但是常常在洞見與實際方法兩者中缺少連結的橋樑。

作者將研究靈活地轉換成數據，並很自然流暢地說明。她首先距焦在女孩如何被霸凌以及其影響，不論是做為被霸凌者或主動霸凌者，較少著墨在男性被霸凌者身上。以作者自身的經驗來說，這是可理解的。書中對男孩霸凌的檢視讓此書有一個比較完整的面向。這本書對父母而言是必讀之作，不管他們的小孩性別為何。

「Bullied is an excellent how-to guide for addressing bullying and creating a culture of acceptance and respect. I can't recommend this book enough to parents and educators!」──Trudy Ludwig, Children's Advocate & Best-selling Author of Confessions of a Former Bully

「Bullied is a compassionate and captivating blend of compelling stories, up-to-date research and practical guidance. Carrie Goldman’s odyssey as a facts-seeking blogger mom at the epicenter makes her a powerful voice for positive change. Her keen insights and engaging storytelling make this comprehensive and inspiring bullying prevention resource indispensable.」──Judy S. Freedman, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., Author, Easing the Teasing Helping Your Child Cope with Name-Calling, Ridicule, and Verbal Bullying

「After years of working in bullying prevention and education, I can honestly state how rare it is that a book like Bullied comes along. Goldman breaks down the culture of bullies in today’s schools with a comprehensive and empowering voice accessible to all those who need to hear her important message. Bullied will not only change the daily lives of students, their parents and educators, this book will shift the values of our generation.」──Michele Borba, award-winning author of 22 parenting and education books, parenting expert for Dr. Oz