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The Honor was Mine
Elizabeth Heaney
Grand Harbor Press
September 2016
288pp
書籍編號:
03-9645
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● 內文簡介

★ 榮獲全球身心靈圖書最高殊榮「鸚鵡螺獎」(Nautilus Book Award)
★ 普立茲獎得主暨資深戰地記者 大衛‧伍德(David Wood)誠摯推薦



《我的榮耀》(The Honor was Mine)是一部情感真摯、令人動容的回憶錄。擁有30年資歷的心理諮商師Elizabeth Heaney,敘述自己多年來為深受創傷後壓力症候群(PTSD)所苦的退伍軍人與配偶、家人進行治療的真實故事,以及在這段旅程中作者內心的體悟與改變。書中深刻的描繪出戰爭所帶來的恐懼、心靈的複雜與脆弱,以及人們無私奉獻的精神與勇氣。

在作者Elizabeth Heaney踏進美軍的軍事基地,為從戰爭前線退役的士兵們進行心理諮商之前,她已經擁有非常多年的臨床經驗。然而,當作者第一次面對這些軍人以及家屬時,瀰漫在空氣之中的戰爭恐懼,與心靈的痛苦,卻遠遠超過她的想像。而這些亟欲維持男子氣概與尊嚴的英勇戰士們,對於作者的詢問,經常選擇沉默應對,讓整場諮詢的對話陷入了泥淖。直到她學會跳脫自己的原有思維,仔細的詢問與聆聽,逐漸地走進每一個士兵的內心世界,同時瞭解戰爭為他們以及家人的心靈所帶來的折磨:

一名年輕的士兵在每個心靈飽受摧殘的夜晚,必須躲進狹小的衣櫃之中才能感到安全;另一個從戰爭前線回到家庭懷抱的戰士,卻無法開口與妻子說話;一名指揮官的妻子在參加近百場的告別式後,內心的枯竭與疲乏。

即使遠離了敵人與戰火,那些記憶中對於戰爭的恐懼、失去同袍的憂傷與壓力,仍舊像是一道看不見的傷口,在心中隱隱作痛。多年來作者Elizabeth Heaney坐在諮詢室中,聆聽著每個軍人的故事,協助他們弭平戰爭與家庭生活之間的鴻溝,重新學會享受「平民生活」。在這場與心靈創傷對抗的戰役中,作者同時扮演著觀察者與幫助者的角色,是一名局外人,卻也是最緊密的戰友。

在《我的榮耀》這本書中,作者以她的觀點清晰地記錄下每個士兵的真實故事,有些令人椎心刺骨、有些看似滑稽可笑,有些則充滿了希望與勇氣。然而,這不是一部關於戰爭的故事,而是一個描繪人性光輝,以及心靈療癒的真實記錄。

 

● 作者簡介

Elizabeth Heaney是一名擁有30多年資歷的心理諮商師,多年來為苦於創傷後壓力症候群(PTSD)的退伍軍人們,及其家人做心理諮詢,曾接受她諮商的軍人,從菜鳥大頭兵到指揮官,層級非常廣泛。

 

● 媒體報導

“In this deeply moving book, Elizabeth Heaney gives voice to war veterans and their families who otherwise would keep painfully hidden what she recognizes as their ‘terrible knowledge.’ Listening to their stories is an essential first step toward healing the wounds of 15 years of war.” —David Wood, Pulitzer Prize-winning correspondent and author of the forthcoming book What Have We Done: the Moral Injury of our Longest Wars

“The Honor Was Mine is not a book about war; it’s a book about humanity—an enlightening, powerful treatise of one person’s struggle to help a generation of warriors and their families as they face the effects of a battle that doesn’t end when they come home. If you’ve ever worn the uniform, are family of those who have or will, or simply a human being who needs to understand the price of war and those who sacrifice so much to help, read this book. The Honor Was Mine will help you understand.” —Danny Johnson, author of The Last Road Home and a Distinguished Flying Cross recipient

“Elizabeth Heaney writes with humility and sincere compassion about the men and women who are continuing to pay the price for America’s wars. She paints a moving portrait of the challenges they face and the triumphs, sometimes small but never minor, that come from doing hard emotional work. She writes from a place of genuine empathy, never condescension. This book is sure to become an essential building block in the bridge across the military-civilian divide.” —LCDR Jerri Bell, USN (Ret.)