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非文學類(大眾心理)
更新日期:
2017-01-18
F*ck Love: One Shrink's Sensible Advice for Finding a Lasting Relationship
Dr. Michael Bennett and Sarah Bennett
Touchstone
January 2017
384pp
書籍編號:
03-9452
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● 內文簡介

紐約時報暢銷書、譯成逾十國語言的大眾心理學《看!情緒幹的好事:哈佛精神科醫師執業40年的良心告白──接受「人生就是不公平」,自豪「不完美的我也是最好的自己」》(F*ck Feelings)兩位作者──哈佛心理醫師父親、喜劇作家女兒,再度聯手出擊的最新力作,《F*ck Love》剖解人們內在世界最柔軟卻錯綜複雜的感情。

對於浪漫關係,絕多數人各有主張,但是為何浪漫關係難以尋獲、不易維繫呢?其根本之由不是複雜的問題,是我們每個人在挑選對象時,會不由自主地依據自己的愛、刺激、慾望、需求以及感覺等等心理層面因素來決定。與其幫助讀者一昧尋找真愛下,《紐約時報》父女檔暢銷作家先針對「良好伴侶關係」提出實用建言與普遍標準,營造真愛的發展。

想要找到一個好伴侶的首要條件,必須捨棄我們內在既定的先入為主想法──主觀認定什麼對象比較適合約會;同時,針對人們最想交往的八種特質對象,進行一場贊成與反對的精闢評估。這八種特質指的是:有魅力、外表佳、男女之間的來電、好溝通、幽默、家庭背景穩定、聰明,與財富。兩位作者也提出,如果我們只抱持著要彼此互相吸引與尊重、擁有共同興趣與目標的想法尋找對象,那麼走進酒吧、線上交友網站,或是親友介紹,可能會更幸運找到。

找到對的人建立一段浪漫關係,永遠是不分性別與世代的重要課題。當網際網絡愈便利,人們的感情反而更疏離。這本書就像是一個愛的行囊,裝滿豐富而受用的建言與智慧,幫助我們尋獲真正的浪漫關係,亦給予我們結束惡劣關係的勇氣。

 

● 作者簡介

麥可.班奈特醫師(Michael I. Bennett, MD),educated at both Harvard College and Harvard Medical School, is a board-certified psychiatrist, Canadian, and Red Sox fan. While he s worked in every aspect of his field, from hospital administration to managed care, his major interest is his private practice that he s been running for almost thirty years. The author of F*ck Feelings, with his daughter Sarah Bennett, he lives with his wife in Boston and New Hampshire.

莎拉.班奈特(Sarah Bennett),has written for magazines, the Internet, television, and books. She also spent two years writing for a monthly sketch comedy show at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater in New York City. When not living by her philosophy of will write for food, Sarah walks her dog, watches Red Sox games, and avoids eye contact with other humans. Somehow, she lives in New Hampshire and works in New York. F*ck Feelings, written with her father Dr. Michael I. Bennett, is her first book.

 

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