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非文學類(人際成長)
更新日期:
2022-12-20
You Will Find Your People: How to Make Meaningful Friendships as an Adult
Lane Moore
Abrams Image
April 2023
224 pp
書籍編號:
03-13393
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● 內文簡介

★登上美亞馬遜友誼新書暢銷冠軍!
★首刷高達25,000冊!
★獲暢銷作《單身,不必告別》作者Rebecca Traister、艾美獎得獎喜劇《瘋狂前女友》演員暨共同製作人Rachel Bloom推薦!
★作者Lane Moore於Instagram累積高達5.7萬粉絲!

關於事業,我們努力向上;關於感情,我們努力尋覓;那麼關於友誼呢?

對每一個成年人來說,或多或少,交朋友都是不容易的對吧?

我們也許去到了更大的世界,遇見了更多的人,然而一切來來去去,最終我們所獲的,真正算數的友誼也許少之又少。事實上,成年人需要的友誼也許不再像小時候那樣,整天膩在一起玩;成年人可能渴望一個互補的朋友,分享各自的優點,平衡各自的弱點;可能是個言行一致,給人踏實感的朋友;又或者是願意為了你赴湯蹈火,十足義氣的朋友。

要找到我們理想中的健康友誼,第一步便是釐清我們是什麼樣的人?我們嚮往著什麼類型的友誼?來自自我成長暢銷作《如何一個人》(How to be Alone)作者Lane Moore,《你會找到你的群體》(You Will Find Your People)以半自傳式、半指南的書寫形式,輕鬆又深切的探討友誼的種種可能性。讀者將會學著突破自己對友情的盲點,擴大對友誼對象的定義——是的,「動物」也可以正式的被算為一種朋友——如何健康地吵架,又是如何優雅地離開一段友誼。

我們可以開誠佈公的談論友誼,因為每一個樂於分享的靈魂,都不嫌另一個有趣的靈魂多餘,而在這部作品提及的種種可能性中,也許正藏著專屬於你經營的那一種!

 

● 作者簡介

Lane Moore,得獎喜劇演員、作家、音樂家,曾擔任《柯夢波丹》性與人際相關專欄編輯,多元且具開創性的酷兒議題使她榮獲同志媒體獎(GLAAD)。她的出道作《How to be Alone》銷售突破3萬冊,廣獲《出版者週刊》、《華盛頓郵報》、《NPR》等媒體、名人好評。Moore同時也是樂團It Was Romance的成員之一,在藝術多方領域收獲好評。她現居紐約,目前在Instagram上已累積5.7萬粉絲。

 

● 媒體報導

“An in-depth examination of one of life's most fascinating experiences, friendship. I didn't know how much I needed this book. I needed this book at the exact moment I cracked it open. I needed it fifteen years ago, and I’m sure I’ll need it again in five.”—Abbi Jacobson, cocreator of Broad City and A League of Their Own

“I can't think of a better-timed book than You Will Find Your People. We're all seeking connection more than ever, and Lane Moore answers questions about friendship that I didn't even realize I had! Prescient and important, You Will Find Your People is a necessary read.”
—Jessica Valenti, author of Sex Object: A Memoir

“As someone who has always felt insecure about the friendships I have versus the ones I think I’m ‘supposed to have,’ this book honestly made me feel better about myself.”—Rachel Bloom, Emmy Award–winning cocreator of Crazy Ex-Girlfriend

“An essential roadmap for one of the most vulnerable experiences one can attempt: making friends as an adult. I’ve been looking for this book my entire adult life. Funny, beautiful, and encouraging. Lane Moore dives deep into the depth of what we humans have to offer each other and how we should do it. Why is this the first book I’ve ever heard of examining all the layers of making and keeping adult friendships? You'll want a highlighter because she covers it all. I’ve been looking for this book my entire adult life.”—Judy Greer

"I love Lane Moore's work, which is always funny, vulnerable, and wise, and I appreciate how seriously she treats the project of building a rewarding, secure adulthood around relationships other than the romantic ones we've historically been told are central.”—Rebecca Traister, New York Times bestselling author of All The Single Ladies